How do you feel when you work so hard and you did everything
you could for something but you are not being appreciated and recognized for
what you have done?
You feel sad. You feel demotivated. There’s part in you fill
with angriness and hatred.
The worst, there’s this sorrow that makes you don’t
trust and not interested to do more anymore like what you did before.
Why feel
that way? You have the right to feel such a way. But should you let it consume
you? Let it take over your life and make you feel worst day by day? NO.
It’s
normal to feel as such when people you trust don’t appreciate you. They forgot
about what you have done. They forgot about how well you treated them. They
forgot about all the pain that you have endured to help them when they needed it the most. You know what? That’s people.
People forgot. People just being
people-human, tend to forget things, especially when they get something new,
replacing the old things, it will be like completely forgot. Perhaps when
people need you last time, it is because for their own benefits, not really
about helping, wanted, or giving you opportunities-like how you thought it will
be.
Feel the pain for a moment. Do something that will make you feel better
again.
If it’s a workplace, be professional and just let it be. You know what
kind of person you are dealing with. Avoid dramas, just do your part. If they
are trying to use you again, stand up for your right, try to avoid people who
use other people for their own interest. If you can’t, change departments. If the problem still persists and interrupts your daily life,
you should try to consider and look for another job.
Be tough, not because you
don’t stay, but because you deserve to be treated better than you were treated
before, and find it elsewhere. Obviously, this is normal and will happen many
times in life and can happen anywhere, no matter where you work or live. But
you should never tie yourself to a chair and let anyone spin you non-stop and
not be able to free yourself from such bullies.
If you faced many bullies in
your life, ask you to do this and do that but in the end, they did not
appreciate and recognize you, don’t do anything for them anymore. Do something
for yourself, free yourself from this kind of people. They ask you to do a lot
of things because you are capable and trusted, but after getting what they
want, they ditch you. That is bad.
Be a leader, not a boss. Be human, and have a heart. Be appreciative, not superficial. Recognize, not make people cry, and
jeopardize people’s life. Try your best to appreciate the people around you. try
your best not to feel down or emotional unless people are being mean, you
deserve to feel what you feel.
You just have to stay strong and be positive. Don’t
hope for anything, but if you deserve something, if it doesn’t happen, it will
happen someday when you least expect it. Be close to people that really care for
you and be there no matter what. Appreciate them and love them hard. You will
feel happy.
Oh, and the bullies don’t deserve you, at all.
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